Have you had an open discussion with your partner about important life questions? Their answers can teach you more about your partner and their dreams and goals.
Even better, these discussions can help you clarify your desires and determine if you each want the same things in life.
What if you don’t want the same things? Are your goals compatible? Maybe you can resolve the differences, so you’re both working toward a future together that will make both of you feel happy and fulfilled.
Before you make a commitment, it’s important to discuss these topics:
1. Urban versus rural. Living preferences will have a significant impact on your future. Does your partner dream of living in a rural area and owning a farm? Or do they wish for a life in a big city with a penthouse?
2. Religion. How religious is your partner? Is religion a large part of their life and dominates their decisions? You may not be comfortable discussing religion, but it’s essential to discuss it.
3. Children. Does your partner want children? How many?
4. Finances. Who will be in charge of finances in the household? Does your partner expect you to take over and pay all the bills?
5. Cooking. Which one of you will handle the cooking and meal preparation, or will you split the duties?
6. Chores. Who will do the vacuuming and dusting? Will you take over and clean every room? Will your partner split the chores with you? How will you handle messes if one of you is a perfectionist and hates clutter?
These questions are all important topics that can affect your daily lives and
relationship. Discussing them and resolving differences before you commit will put you on a path to a bright future together.
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